How to reconnect with estranged friend?

I honestly don't know what to tell you. I'm in a similar situation. I had a friend for years and she was doing the same thing to me. Taking me for granted, not caring what I thought, I would have to listen to her problems but if I needed a shoulder to cry on she would be to busy to listen. Finally I had enough and snapped. She lives in a different state so I cut her off completely. It's been over a year since I've talked to her, and while there is some times I miss our friendship, I'm really glad to be rid of all her drama and abusive ways. I've tried thinking how I might go about contacting her again and try to rekindle our friendship but I don't really know if it's worth it. I actually found a sense of peace knowing I don't have to deal with her daily phone and email drama. I think if your friend really wanted to keep your friendship alive then he would make the effort to try and contact you and apologize. If you don't miss the friendship then I personally wouldn't do anything. Some people come into our lives for different reasons. Not all of them are meant to stay.